So just to play it safe I asked for a std test when I was at my Dr's visit last week. The GREAT news is i'm as STD free as a virgin lol. But my question is 1. how many of you have been tested and 2. what are everyone's thoughts in general about STD's? I have friends who have gotten them and most although they wish it never happened seem to be pretty caviler about it. For example I have a friend who just turned 20 and she has herpes, she always jokes about it and says she never tells guys that she sleeps with that she has it. Hence my reason for being tested, it made me think wow what if someone I hooked up with had somethiing and didn't know or didn't say anything... The hard part for me is I'm allergic to latex so condoms are a painful no go for me. I can use non latex condoms but they are not 100% effective in stopping all STD's IDK I just want some thoughts on this topic.
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STD's
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Dairy Request
a.) Name of the diary you would like to make
The Whovains
b.) Description to be posted on the main diary page
All about doctor who. And other doctor who matters.
c.) Owners of the diary
My self
d.) Any other diaries you currently own
None
The Whovains
b.) Description to be posted on the main diary page
All about doctor who. And other doctor who matters.
c.) Owners of the diary
My self
d.) Any other diaries you currently own
None
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Survey for girls, what are some of the things you have done when masturbating?
Survey for girls, what are some of the things you have done when masturbating alone or with another girl?
1-number of fingers you usually insert?
2- most number of fingers you have inserted so far?
3- inserted a hair brush?
4- inserted a dildo?
5- have inserted a vibrator
6- have inserted bottles before
7- have inserted other objects before, please list
8-have licked objects before after inserting them, please list
9-have pulled or twisted my nips to get them hard
10-have licked or sucked my nipples getting them hard
11-have sniffed my fingers
12-have sniffed my panties
13-have sniffed another girls panties, and did she know you did it?
14-have licked my discharge off my fingers
15-have licked my discharge off another girls fingers while she was fingering me
16-have licked my discharge in my panties
17-have licked another girls discharge in her panties, and did she know you did it?
18-have kissed another girl while masturbating together
19-have licked or sucked another girls nipples while masturbating together
20-have fingered another girl while she fingered me
21-while fingering another girl have put my fingers in her mouth so she could taste her discharge on them
22-while fingering another girl have put her panties over her mouth so she could taste her discharge in them
23-have traded panties with another girl while masturbating together then we licked each other panties
24-Other fun things you have done while masturbating alone or with another girl? Please list
1-number of fingers you usually insert?
2- most number of fingers you have inserted so far?
3- inserted a hair brush?
4- inserted a dildo?
5- have inserted a vibrator
6- have inserted bottles before
7- have inserted other objects before, please list
8-have licked objects before after inserting them, please list
9-have pulled or twisted my nips to get them hard
10-have licked or sucked my nipples getting them hard
11-have sniffed my fingers
12-have sniffed my panties
13-have sniffed another girls panties, and did she know you did it?
14-have licked my discharge off my fingers
15-have licked my discharge off another girls fingers while she was fingering me
16-have licked my discharge in my panties
17-have licked another girls discharge in her panties, and did she know you did it?
18-have kissed another girl while masturbating together
19-have licked or sucked another girls nipples while masturbating together
20-have fingered another girl while she fingered me
21-while fingering another girl have put my fingers in her mouth so she could taste her discharge on them
22-while fingering another girl have put her panties over her mouth so she could taste her discharge in them
23-have traded panties with another girl while masturbating together then we licked each other panties
24-Other fun things you have done while masturbating alone or with another girl? Please list
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Does anyone have hair there
Hey I'm 13 and I just noticed today that I have a substancial amount of air around my ass hole I was wondering does anyone have any hair in the same place
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{insert witty Dr Who-based pun here}
Congrats on the new diary! Remember to keep it active, promote activity, all that good stuff. I'll enable video embedding and rep for you ASAP.
Any questions, shoot one of the diary staff a message and we'll be happy to help.
Have fun!
Any questions, shoot one of the diary staff a message and we'll be happy to help.
Have fun!
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I always seem to be horny
Hey guys, I always hear about other people being obsessed with sex but nobody I know seems to be that way. Is anybody else always horny?
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shrinkage
Hi, so I'm 16 and 4.5 inches floppy, bit when it gets properly cold my dick shrinks, which is normal, buy when it shrinks it shrinks it looks like the Willy of a four year old and my balls like basically dissapear. This happens if I'm playing sports on the cold which is embaressing and when I'm getting changed my underwear does not look as full as other boys look, or it happens when I'm waiting for the bus, and when I get home I have to fiddle for ages with it to get it back to size. How big is your dick floppy ?How much do you shrink? Has anyone seen your shrunken Willy? Have you compared how much you shrink with friends? And what do you do to get it back to size? Cheers
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shrinkage
Hi, so I'm 16 and 4.5 inches floppy, bit when it gets properly cold my dick shrinks, which is normal, buy when it shrinks it shrinks it looks like the Willy of a four year old and my balls like basically dissapear. This happens if I'm playing sports on the cold which is embaressing and when I'm getting changed my underwear does not look as full as other boys look, or it happens when I'm waiting for the bus, and when I get home I have to fiddle for ages with it to get it back to size.
How big is your dick floppy ?
How much do you shrink?
Has anyone seen your shrunken Willy?
Have you compared how much you shrink with friends?
And what do you do to get it back to size?
Cheers
How big is your dick floppy ?
How much do you shrink?
Has anyone seen your shrunken Willy?
Have you compared how much you shrink with friends?
And what do you do to get it back to size?
Cheers
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boy , girls your first real kiss " french kiss "
gender :
age now :
your first age u kissed a boy. girl with tongue ???
where was it
age : 18
age i kissed a boy : 14
where in his house
it was great
age now :
your first age u kissed a boy. girl with tongue ???
where was it
age : 18
age i kissed a boy : 14
where in his house
it was great
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Who are you comfortable nude around
Are you comfortable naked in front of any people? Like your friends, strangers, mom, dad, siblings, everybody?
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GovTeen Photo Album: March 2014
I have nothing new to contribute but lets go.
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Come on
There has to be a character limit on these diary descriptions holy fuck
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New
Hi everyone. I'm Nikki 13f
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Hi everyone! I'm new!
Hey everyone! I'm new on here. 14/m/texas here. I hope everyone is doing well. byee
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Malaysia Airlines Flight MH370
It never really took off....
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Masturbating while babysitting
So I've babysat for one of our neighbors for about 4 months now. It seems like since the very first time, I couldn't wait to get the kids in bed! There's a 5 year old boy and a 9 year old girl and I usually have to give them baths before bed and I get kinda excited when I do that and like then I can't wait for them to be asleep so that l can take care of myself. I usually wait 20 mins or so and then I always go on the computer or snoop around and get so horny it's crazy.... Sometimes I will have like 4-5 orgasms and just keep doin junk till I know the parents will be home soon. Sometimes I'll even try and kinda get caught (not really) but I will start with just one leg out and keep it going till I hear them and them try to finish really quick before they get in the house.... Sometimes I feel like such a perv but it's fun! Well Saturday I was there and I was Layin on the floor in their family room and was on my tummy and was really havin fun and the little girl had gotten up and totally seen me!!... I was like uh oh! I jumped up and did my pants and she had said she couldn't sleep....I was soo nervous and I told her she could watch TV and was so scared thinkin she was gonna tell on me...so as we were watchin TV I noticed that as she was Layin there she was kind wiggling on her hand....so I didn't say anything and just kind watched her and she wound up fallin asleep after a few mins of grinding. I just couldn't wait to finish what I had started so I did it sitting up right at the end of the couch we were on... Am I bad or
like obsessed or something? Just feels so sexy bein sneaky
like obsessed or something? Just feels so sexy bein sneaky
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question
Is is possible to change the title of a thread after it's already been created?
I didn't see the option, or maybe I did but just don't remember/didn't realize it.
Thanks,
Destiny
I didn't see the option, or maybe I did but just don't remember/didn't realize it.
Thanks,
Destiny
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Please Read. (I don't know what else to title this)
I've already contacted an administrator a month ago, and I got no response. Not even an acknowledgement of 'hey, I read your message.' Absolutely nothing.
This is important, and it wasn't originally a complaint but now it is because I got ignored. It's something I am legitimately concerned about.
February 18th, I was scrolling through the new posts, and came across a thread. It was a thread of a self-harm survey essentially. I didn't realize at the time that it had been bumped, and that it was made in 2012.
It got closed on February 19th by DomoDisaster, and her comment as a closing was:
If someone wants to make something more recent that is similar that's fine.
I understand why the thread was closed, that's not an issue here. It was an extreme bump. She never once said that it was inappropriate to be on the site, she even said that if someone wanted to make a new one that it was okay to do so.
So, I did. I made a new thread the next day, but I added more stuff to it. I put it in the teen forum for many reasons, particularly because I was looking for support and responses for teens (especially considering this is a teen site..) and I didn't want anyone that was older commenting anything that could be offensive towards anyone who did the survey or said anything about self-harming that was from a personal viewpoint.
My survey included these questions:
1. Have you ever self harmed?
2. Do you still do it?
3. If you did/do, what type of self-harm was it?
4. How old were you when you first did it?
5. Who knew? Did you tell anyone?
6. Have you ever gotten help? (Ex. Counselor, therapist, etc.)
7. What is your reason for doing it? (Ex. Some people do it as a form of release or they may feel like they deserve it.)
8. Have you ever thought about, planned, or attempted suicide? (If you answer this with yes, don't answer #9)
9. Are you ever scared that it might progress into something worse, like suicidal tendencies?
10. How were you able to stop your self-harming tendencies if you did?
I answered it myself. And then I had this typed out for me to add, as I could not access the site from where I was. So, I typed it into evernote for me to add into the thread later.
If you are self-harming, tell someone, get help. Even if you think it's not a big deal or that you can manage it or deal with it on your own, get help. Don't push it off and say that if it gets worse, then you will get help, because when it does get worse you probably wont want to go for help you may get to the point of suicide. There are people who care, whether you can see or not, you have to find the right people to tell. If you self-harm or deal with depression, you are not alone.
If you know someone who self-harms, please go get help for them, or encourage them to get help. Some things you can't solve on your own and you need help doing so. The best thing you can do for a friend like that is to just go for help and let someone more experienced help get them the help that they need. It's not betraying or tattling, and they will end up thanking you in the end. You never know, you could save a life.
Message me if you need someone to talk to, I'm completely open.![]()
That night, I had a seizure (not making excuses, stating a fact) and the kind that I had knock me out for several hours, and I sleep for a really long time. So I wasn't able to add it that night. I was going to put it later that next day during my lunch period. Instead, I logged on at lunch to find this message in my inbox:
Destiny,
I would like to go ahead and get rid of your self harm thread. We've gotten multiple complaints on it, saying it could be a trigger, it's somewhat offensive, doesn't fit on the site, etc.. And to be perfectly honest, I agree, these aren't the types of discussions we should be having on the site. Unfortunately you don't have a diary anymore so I can't move it there, Depression, Loss and Grief doesn't really allow those types of discussions and there isn't another forum that permits that kind of stuff. I'm sort of at a loss as to what to do here other than delete it so that others can't see it. If I may make a suggestion, you can make a group, sort of like a self-harm support group. That's all I really have for you.
If you have any questions, please feel free to let me know.
Thanks
Crash Override
I had many problems with this philosophy, whether it's a site thing or just him.
If it was offensive or could be a trigger to self-harmers, I would not have posted it, as I have been a self-harmer for five years now.
He said it doesn't fit on the site, and that's a load of crap to be honest. There's even a forum for depression, loss and grief and I have a feeling it wouldn't even be welcome there. Do you know what self-harm is commonly triggered by? Depression, loss and grief.
He suggested that I make a support group for it, if it's not allowed on the site in general, then why would that be allowed?
On a forum, especially one created for teens, support is needed for those kinds of things to know they aren't alone and others know how they feel, but if it gets ran off and shushed all the time, they're just gonna continue to feel alone.
If the problem was that it didn't belong in that forum, it could have been moved.
I have a problem with not being able to post a thread about self-harming and it being deemed unnecessary for the site when:
I'm not mad, I really just don't understand. I think that Govteen needs to be more understanding and supportive of this stuff. I think that anything discussing self-harm should be allowed under the circumstances that asking for tips on how to self-harm, methods, etc. is not allowed.
It also irritates me that I was not acknowledged. You could have at least responded something just as simple as "Hey, I read your message and I will get back to you about it," and I would have been happy with that. But instead, I was ignored which just confirms my theory even more. I gave it time (a month, over that actually) in case maybe he was going to get back to me later about it. But nope, nothing. So now, I'm making this.
I am suggesting that Govteen please allow these things under the depression forum. Self-harm is a very prevalent problem among teens from the age of 13 to 18. A lot of people find it much easier to talk to people about personal subjects through technology than in person, which is understandable. A common problem is that we don't tell anyone, so we suffer in silence.
I interviewed 50 teens from the age of 13 to 18, asking these questions:
1. Have you ever struggled with depression?
74% yes (37 out of 50
26% no (13 out of 50)
2. Do you have or have you had any mental health problems such as: PTSD, depression disorder, bipolar disorder, anxiety disorders, eating disorders, personality disorders, schizophrenia, or any other mental illnesses?
54% yes (27 out of 50)
46% no (23 out of 50)
3. Have you ever went through therapy, counseling, rehabilitation or been part of support groups for mental health?
46% yes (23 out of 50)
54% no (27 out of 50)
4. Have you ever considered, planned, or attempted suicide?
54% yes (27 out of 50)
46% no (23 out of 50)
5. Have you ever self-harmed in any way, shape, or form?
59.18% yes (29 out of 50)
40.82% no (20 out of 50)
one person skipped the question
6. Do you find it easier to talk to people about personal subjects face-to-face or through technology, forums, etc.?
22.45% face-to-face (11 out of 50)
77.55% technology (38 out of 50)
one person skipped the question
7. Do you ever think you need or want someone to talk to, but you dont want to talk to anyone who knows you in person for fear of how they will see you in the future?
77.55% yes (38 out of 50)
22.45% no (11 out of 50)
one person skipped the question
Now, this by no means proves anything about govteen, but I'm assuming that a large number of Govteen's members are teenagers, correct? So, based on my survey (and I still have more replies coming in), that means that:
I could tell you more, like 1 in 4 young people across the world will not only think about suicide but have a detailed plan of how they want to act on it before they graduate high school. That includes a lot of Govteen's members. Think about how many members Govteen currently has active, and divide that by four. That number would be how many not only think/have thought about taking their own life, but have a plan to do it.
So, having said all of this, I beg of you to please do something for those like me on the site, or to allow for something to be done. I don't think it should be out of control, by no means, but I do think that something should be done to help.
I'm seriously not mad, just a little irritated. Please, someone respond to this.
This is important, and it wasn't originally a complaint but now it is because I got ignored. It's something I am legitimately concerned about.
February 18th, I was scrolling through the new posts, and came across a thread. It was a thread of a self-harm survey essentially. I didn't realize at the time that it had been bumped, and that it was made in 2012.
It got closed on February 19th by DomoDisaster, and her comment as a closing was:
Quote:
If someone wants to make something more recent that is similar that's fine.
I understand why the thread was closed, that's not an issue here. It was an extreme bump. She never once said that it was inappropriate to be on the site, she even said that if someone wanted to make a new one that it was okay to do so.
So, I did. I made a new thread the next day, but I added more stuff to it. I put it in the teen forum for many reasons, particularly because I was looking for support and responses for teens (especially considering this is a teen site..) and I didn't want anyone that was older commenting anything that could be offensive towards anyone who did the survey or said anything about self-harming that was from a personal viewpoint.
Quote:
My survey included these questions:
Quote:
1. Have you ever self harmed?
2. Do you still do it?
3. If you did/do, what type of self-harm was it?
4. How old were you when you first did it?
5. Who knew? Did you tell anyone?
6. Have you ever gotten help? (Ex. Counselor, therapist, etc.)
7. What is your reason for doing it? (Ex. Some people do it as a form of release or they may feel like they deserve it.)
8. Have you ever thought about, planned, or attempted suicide? (If you answer this with yes, don't answer #9)
9. Are you ever scared that it might progress into something worse, like suicidal tendencies?
10. How were you able to stop your self-harming tendencies if you did?
I answered it myself. And then I had this typed out for me to add, as I could not access the site from where I was. So, I typed it into evernote for me to add into the thread later.
Quote:
If you are self-harming, tell someone, get help. Even if you think it's not a big deal or that you can manage it or deal with it on your own, get help. Don't push it off and say that if it gets worse, then you will get help, because when it does get worse you probably wont want to go for help you may get to the point of suicide. There are people who care, whether you can see or not, you have to find the right people to tell. If you self-harm or deal with depression, you are not alone.
Quote:
If you know someone who self-harms, please go get help for them, or encourage them to get help. Some things you can't solve on your own and you need help doing so. The best thing you can do for a friend like that is to just go for help and let someone more experienced help get them the help that they need. It's not betraying or tattling, and they will end up thanking you in the end. You never know, you could save a life.
Message me if you need someone to talk to, I'm completely open.
Quote:
Destiny,
Quote:
I would like to go ahead and get rid of your self harm thread. We've gotten multiple complaints on it, saying it could be a trigger, it's somewhat offensive, doesn't fit on the site, etc.. And to be perfectly honest, I agree, these aren't the types of discussions we should be having on the site. Unfortunately you don't have a diary anymore so I can't move it there, Depression, Loss and Grief doesn't really allow those types of discussions and there isn't another forum that permits that kind of stuff. I'm sort of at a loss as to what to do here other than delete it so that others can't see it. If I may make a suggestion, you can make a group, sort of like a self-harm support group. That's all I really have for you.
If you have any questions, please feel free to let me know.
Thanks
Crash Override
If it was offensive or could be a trigger to self-harmers, I would not have posted it, as I have been a self-harmer for five years now.
He said it doesn't fit on the site, and that's a load of crap to be honest. There's even a forum for depression, loss and grief and I have a feeling it wouldn't even be welcome there. Do you know what self-harm is commonly triggered by? Depression, loss and grief.
He suggested that I make a support group for it, if it's not allowed on the site in general, then why would that be allowed?
On a forum, especially one created for teens, support is needed for those kinds of things to know they aren't alone and others know how they feel, but if it gets ran off and shushed all the time, they're just gonna continue to feel alone.
If the problem was that it didn't belong in that forum, it could have been moved.
I have a problem with not being able to post a thread about self-harming and it being deemed unnecessary for the site when:
- That thread that started all of this lasted two years on the site before being closed, and it wasn't because it was not allowed on the site.
- This and this and plenty of others mentioning the topic are allowed but yet a survey or discussion about self-harming is not. When it boils down to it, they are no different. All three are just as important. Also, I have a non-self-harm calendar in my diary journal but that's okay too, so why isn't this?
I'm not mad, I really just don't understand. I think that Govteen needs to be more understanding and supportive of this stuff. I think that anything discussing self-harm should be allowed under the circumstances that asking for tips on how to self-harm, methods, etc. is not allowed.
It also irritates me that I was not acknowledged. You could have at least responded something just as simple as "Hey, I read your message and I will get back to you about it," and I would have been happy with that. But instead, I was ignored which just confirms my theory even more. I gave it time (a month, over that actually) in case maybe he was going to get back to me later about it. But nope, nothing. So now, I'm making this.
I am suggesting that Govteen please allow these things under the depression forum. Self-harm is a very prevalent problem among teens from the age of 13 to 18. A lot of people find it much easier to talk to people about personal subjects through technology than in person, which is understandable. A common problem is that we don't tell anyone, so we suffer in silence.
I interviewed 50 teens from the age of 13 to 18, asking these questions:
1. Have you ever struggled with depression?
74% yes (37 out of 50
26% no (13 out of 50)
2. Do you have or have you had any mental health problems such as: PTSD, depression disorder, bipolar disorder, anxiety disorders, eating disorders, personality disorders, schizophrenia, or any other mental illnesses?
54% yes (27 out of 50)
46% no (23 out of 50)
3. Have you ever went through therapy, counseling, rehabilitation or been part of support groups for mental health?
46% yes (23 out of 50)
54% no (27 out of 50)
4. Have you ever considered, planned, or attempted suicide?
54% yes (27 out of 50)
46% no (23 out of 50)
5. Have you ever self-harmed in any way, shape, or form?
59.18% yes (29 out of 50)
40.82% no (20 out of 50)
one person skipped the question
6. Do you find it easier to talk to people about personal subjects face-to-face or through technology, forums, etc.?
22.45% face-to-face (11 out of 50)
77.55% technology (38 out of 50)
one person skipped the question
7. Do you ever think you need or want someone to talk to, but you dont want to talk to anyone who knows you in person for fear of how they will see you in the future?
77.55% yes (38 out of 50)
22.45% no (11 out of 50)
one person skipped the question
Now, this by no means proves anything about govteen, but I'm assuming that a large number of Govteen's members are teenagers, correct? So, based on my survey (and I still have more replies coming in), that means that:
- approximately 74% of Govteen's teenage members have struggled with depression
- approximately 60% of Govteen's teenage members have self-harmed at one time, or are even actively self-harming.
- approximately 77% of Govteen's teenage members would say that they find it easier for them to talk to people about personal subjects (such as suicide plans and self-harming) through technology
I could tell you more, like 1 in 4 young people across the world will not only think about suicide but have a detailed plan of how they want to act on it before they graduate high school. That includes a lot of Govteen's members. Think about how many members Govteen currently has active, and divide that by four. That number would be how many not only think/have thought about taking their own life, but have a plan to do it.
So, having said all of this, I beg of you to please do something for those like me on the site, or to allow for something to be done. I don't think it should be out of control, by no means, but I do think that something should be done to help.
I'm seriously not mad, just a little irritated. Please, someone respond to this.
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Never kissed a girl!!
Hey i am 16 and still a virgin also never kissed anyone...Is anyone there who has also not kissed anyone till now..
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Why does everyone look up to me?
This is literally the tenth time I've stopped my friends from killing themselves since new years. Not even going to go further back because thats too many to count.
WHAT DO I DO TO KEEP PEOPLE CONTENT WITH THEIR PROBLEMS WHEN THEY INVOLVE ME?
WHAT DO I DO TO KEEP PEOPLE CONTENT WITH THEIR PROBLEMS WHEN THEY INVOLVE ME?
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