Anal sex

So me and my girlfriend are both virgins and we're thinking about anal sex, we were wondering about using lotion as a lube instead of something like ky jelly or sex lube. I am going to wear a condom, but want to know what type of lotion would not be ok, I found a lotion with no oil ingredients except there is one thing, Alcohol! Is that even remotely ok to rub against your ass? Much less use with a condom? Also, what does isopropyl, alcohol, starch, and fragrance do to a condom?

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Water, Glycerin, Isopropyl Palmitate, Alcohol Denat., Glyceryl Stearate SE, C12-15 alkyl benzoate, Cetearyl Alcohol, Tapioca Starch, Dimethicone, Glyceryl Glucoside, Sea Salt, Carbomer, Fragrance, Xanthan Gum, Sodium Cetearyl Sulfate, Sodium Hydroxide, Phenoxyethanol, Methylparaben, Ethylparaben.

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Water, Mineral Oil, Glycerin, Caprylic Triglyceride, Cetyl Alcohol, Panthenol, Cetearyl Alcohol, phenoxyethanol, Stearic Acid, Dimethicone, Carbomer, Ceteareth-20, Sodium Hydroxide, Sodium Citrate, Methylparaben, Propylparaben, Fragrance, Citric Acid, Ethylparaben

Cure*l Daily Moisture

Water, Glycerin, Distearyldimonium Chrloride, Petrolatum, Isopropyl Palmitate, Cetyl alcohol, cetyl-pg, hydroxyethyl, palmitamide, eucalyptus globulus leaf extract, butyrospermum parkii (shea butter), acacia senegal gum, dimethicone, fragrance, sodium chloride, gelatin, butylene glycol, methylparaben, propylparaben

What are your guys' concerns on those ingredients and what would be the best choice out of all lotions for you guys? Have you ever tried using lotion for anal sex? Is it remotely safe? Better with getting lube?