I live in the UK, and I'm going into Year 11 this coming school year. Since I first came to secondary school I wasn't a popular kid but still hung around with some good friends who were alright. When I first went into Year 10 my classes changed and I pretty much started again. There was a boy in my class who was a close friend before secondary school and he was very popular now so we had drifted apart. During the year we became best mates once again and we went around everywhere together. I started to build my confidence and I have recently started to get a lot more attention from girls (good attention, most of which is friendship as I am pretty inexperienced in flirting and relationships). Two nights ago I was invited to a garden party where I actually spoke to a lot of girls and it helped me build my confidence. There was about 15 girls there all who I knew from school, most I spoke to regularly now and a couple who I had a conversation on the odd occasion. There was one girl who I had spoke to a few times and she was always really nice around me and seemed to be a really nice and attractive girl. She started speaking to me and we sat around the campfire and spoke for a couple hours. It was weird for me and I didn't expect to be talking to a girl at this party. We had a good chat and we had fun and laughter for a while and we hung around with each other all night and we had a lot of fun. The one thing that made me cautious though was the fact she has a boyfriend two years older, he's quite popular in his year and has been going out with her for a month. I do know though that they had some problems earlier this month and split although getting back together a couple days later. I hardly ever see her with him and I was unsure whether he was still with her until I spoke to her at the party(which she was).
Now after the party, as soon as I got home she sent me a message on facebook and we spoke for a while until I sadly fell asleep while we were chatting. When I woke up this morning I sent her a message and we chatted for 2/3 hours about last night and all(it was quite a flirtatious chat). Now it's night and I can't get her off my mind, I really like her and still can't believe that I spoke to her and even gave her a massage(which is really unlikely of me) at the party. Now I want to keep speaking to her but there is still the problem of her boyfriend who I'm not sure in all honesty if she's in true love with him. The other problem is the 6 week break before we go back to school. Now I want to keep talking to her and the fun we had last night and the chat we had today I think of her as the type of girl I would like a relationship with, what's my next move and how can I keep speaking to her and us both having a good laugh without me seeming clingy and without her boyfriend getting suspicious?
Now after the party, as soon as I got home she sent me a message on facebook and we spoke for a while until I sadly fell asleep while we were chatting. When I woke up this morning I sent her a message and we chatted for 2/3 hours about last night and all(it was quite a flirtatious chat). Now it's night and I can't get her off my mind, I really like her and still can't believe that I spoke to her and even gave her a massage(which is really unlikely of me) at the party. Now I want to keep speaking to her but there is still the problem of her boyfriend who I'm not sure in all honesty if she's in true love with him. The other problem is the 6 week break before we go back to school. Now I want to keep talking to her and the fun we had last night and the chat we had today I think of her as the type of girl I would like a relationship with, what's my next move and how can I keep speaking to her and us both having a good laugh without me seeming clingy and without her boyfriend getting suspicious?