Sooo, all of my wheels are bent

I don't like 19" wheels. Know why? Mainly because the roads in this part of the country suck, there are potholes and bumps everywhere, it's so bad that when you go way out of your way to avoid them it's still impossible because you end up hitting other ones while avoiding the big ones! But anyway, apparently all 4 of my wheels are slightly bent and that's why I notice vibration while on the highway around 60-75mph. They also told me that my tires are a bit worn, but they really aren't that bad.

I'm sure that my OCD plays a role in this, but, I've considered getting all 4 new wheels. However, the place I just had my car at (which is a non-dealer dealer) told me that it's not worth it because after a few weeks the new wheels will just become bent.

/Rant