Hey everyone, I'll try and keep this short but just a warning: i tend to write my posts longer than intended.
Anyway I'll give a little background so that this all fits together. First and foremost I'm a guy and I'm 15. I'm kind of an intellectual, and so when I meet people i like to get to know them and learn about who they really are. I take things like promises a lot more seriously than i probably should and I only have a few good friends simply because I put all my heart into my friendships. Most of my friends are girls which makes everyone think I'm gay ( I dont have a problem with being gay, i just dont happen to be). Anyway I have never had a girlfriend. I did in 6th grade but it didnt really count. I like getting to know people and so when i find a girl i really like ( its pretty rare), i always get friendzoned cause i build to close a bond on an emotional level before the chance of a relationship. So thats that for a past issues summary.
Right now i really like a girl who I have only recently gotten to know (I've known her a for a while but just started really talking to her and learning about her) and I don't want to make the same mistake of getting in the friend zone that has plagued me in every past experience. She has goals and shes got a lot in common with me in both trivial and life things. We both are really into all kinds of music and movies and we both have been raised by divorced parents dealing with the same problems.I just really like her and i really need a new approach before i end up as a close friend instead of something more. She just recently broke up with her boyfriend so i can't really take a direct approach yet cause she needs a little break and if she even liked me now it would probably be a rebound thing which isnt a recipe for a lasting relationship. So yeah, anyone whether it be a guy who has dealt with something like this successfully, or a girl who knows how the mysterious female mind works, is welcome to help
Its kind of a long post so sorry about that. Thanks in advance to any real advice you guys and gals might give.
Anyway I'll give a little background so that this all fits together. First and foremost I'm a guy and I'm 15. I'm kind of an intellectual, and so when I meet people i like to get to know them and learn about who they really are. I take things like promises a lot more seriously than i probably should and I only have a few good friends simply because I put all my heart into my friendships. Most of my friends are girls which makes everyone think I'm gay ( I dont have a problem with being gay, i just dont happen to be). Anyway I have never had a girlfriend. I did in 6th grade but it didnt really count. I like getting to know people and so when i find a girl i really like ( its pretty rare), i always get friendzoned cause i build to close a bond on an emotional level before the chance of a relationship. So thats that for a past issues summary.
Right now i really like a girl who I have only recently gotten to know (I've known her a for a while but just started really talking to her and learning about her) and I don't want to make the same mistake of getting in the friend zone that has plagued me in every past experience. She has goals and shes got a lot in common with me in both trivial and life things. We both are really into all kinds of music and movies and we both have been raised by divorced parents dealing with the same problems.I just really like her and i really need a new approach before i end up as a close friend instead of something more. She just recently broke up with her boyfriend so i can't really take a direct approach yet cause she needs a little break and if she even liked me now it would probably be a rebound thing which isnt a recipe for a lasting relationship. So yeah, anyone whether it be a guy who has dealt with something like this successfully, or a girl who knows how the mysterious female mind works, is welcome to help
Its kind of a long post so sorry about that. Thanks in advance to any real advice you guys and gals might give.