How nice are you?

Okay so like.. this just freaking blows my mind.. I was going through some convos about the friendzone and that bullshit.. please don't make this thread about that.. but my point is like, I would do anything for a male or female friend in need, I'm happily in a year and a half relationship and we live together, yet I'd do anything for any friend that asked it of me.

I said
Then I was told that I must be in the friendzone myself.. now like.. do people not really give a shit about their friends anymore?
I mean I've known through my history with friends that they only have priorities for certain friends, but like @CrashOverride, he's been there for me for so long, he took my grandmother to the hospital when I wasn't able to drive, helped me out multiple times, and he's what I consider a true friend and a really great person. Note also, he isn't interested in me and if anyone has noticed, he prefers being by himself because a relationship is too much trouble for his busy working life style.

In any case;

I'd to the same for any of my friends, but apparently to everyone else, the only time you go out of your way for someone is to get in their pants?
That's so fucked up.

So here I am, asking..

How nice are you?
How far would you go for your friends?
Do you just not care?
Are you in a set up where you don't have to care for others, other than when trying to get a date?

I just really don't understand why people aren't nicer to each other.. is my head back in the times?