I met Nate in the last week of my freshman year, during finals week. He sat and studied with me and my friend Hannah everyday throughout the whole week.
Day 1:
When I first met him, Nate sat in front of me. He kept on taking quick glances at me and every time I look up to make eye contact, Nate quickly looks back at his computer. We were talking and I told him how I really wanted to smoke. He offered to smoke me up when we leave the library. But I had said no because my usual smoking buddies asked me to join them on a last smoking hurrah before everyone went back home for the summer. When I said goodbye and left he looked very disappointed and asked if I will be in the library the next day.
Day 2:
I met up with Hannah at the library and she was telling me how Nate was hitting on me as in joking manner. I quickly reacted by shifting this idea towards her, telling her that he was into her. I am not out yet, so Im very closeted and put on a shell. We found a table and settled, but Nate came earlier than us and found a room. Hannah and I were too lazy to move our stuff, so we just stayed at the table. Nothing eventful happened, except for ordering and sharing pizza between the three of us.
Day 3:
The three of us met at the library again, this time sitting at the table together. I had a chemistry final the next day and I was joking to them how the chem professor might have a crush on me. And how I should flirt my way into an A. Then Nate said just commented on how the chem professor is good-looking and has a nice ass. We also had a conversation about how Im a vegetarian, and I asked him if he will ever give up eating meat. He answered in such a sexual manner aimed towards me, I love meat in my mouth way too much. He is also very attentive towards me and not to Hannah. He noticed that my head phones have different size ear-buds. He went out for lunch and when he came back he gave me a pair of ear-buds that he owns. I mean it was a really nice gesture. We were also playing around with each others computer if they leave to go to the bathroom. He kept on messing with mine a lot, like downloading a file that keeps on opening tons of windows.
Day 4:
It started thundering and I told him that I love the thunder, and he doesnt. He quickly blurted out a comment about how he wanted to cuddle with me during the storm under his breather. I was caught off guard and I asked him to repeat what he said. Nate quickly changed the subject and went back to his work. Hannah didnt hear anything because she had her earphones on. As the day went on, we got really bored. So we started complementing people that walked by us. Nate tried to force me to give my number to a girl, but I didnt. I sat next to him and he was very touchy like putting his hand on my back and smiling a lot. He also started taking my stuff and hiding it. Then we both decided to smoke up after studying so we went into his room and I met a few of his friends. They asked Nate if I was his friend, as if they were insinuating something else. When we got high we went to late night, and he kept on asking if I was ok. We left together, leaving his friends behind at late night. We walked back to his room and he told me that he was going to listen to music and sleep. I grabbed my stuff form his room and he quickly closed the door.
Day 5:
The next morning he FB messages me. He was still high and has a final in two hours. And thats the last time I saw him of my freshman year.
Im just really CONFUSE and I dont know if he was flirting with me during the whole week. I felt like he tried to make some moves but I did not respond to him. SHOULD I MAKE THE FIRST MOVE? (like sending him a FB message. If so like what should I say?)
On a side note, I really like him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and one of my friends said that he was bi, not sure though
Day 1:
When I first met him, Nate sat in front of me. He kept on taking quick glances at me and every time I look up to make eye contact, Nate quickly looks back at his computer. We were talking and I told him how I really wanted to smoke. He offered to smoke me up when we leave the library. But I had said no because my usual smoking buddies asked me to join them on a last smoking hurrah before everyone went back home for the summer. When I said goodbye and left he looked very disappointed and asked if I will be in the library the next day.
Day 2:
I met up with Hannah at the library and she was telling me how Nate was hitting on me as in joking manner. I quickly reacted by shifting this idea towards her, telling her that he was into her. I am not out yet, so Im very closeted and put on a shell. We found a table and settled, but Nate came earlier than us and found a room. Hannah and I were too lazy to move our stuff, so we just stayed at the table. Nothing eventful happened, except for ordering and sharing pizza between the three of us.
Day 3:
The three of us met at the library again, this time sitting at the table together. I had a chemistry final the next day and I was joking to them how the chem professor might have a crush on me. And how I should flirt my way into an A. Then Nate said just commented on how the chem professor is good-looking and has a nice ass. We also had a conversation about how Im a vegetarian, and I asked him if he will ever give up eating meat. He answered in such a sexual manner aimed towards me, I love meat in my mouth way too much. He is also very attentive towards me and not to Hannah. He noticed that my head phones have different size ear-buds. He went out for lunch and when he came back he gave me a pair of ear-buds that he owns. I mean it was a really nice gesture. We were also playing around with each others computer if they leave to go to the bathroom. He kept on messing with mine a lot, like downloading a file that keeps on opening tons of windows.
Day 4:
It started thundering and I told him that I love the thunder, and he doesnt. He quickly blurted out a comment about how he wanted to cuddle with me during the storm under his breather. I was caught off guard and I asked him to repeat what he said. Nate quickly changed the subject and went back to his work. Hannah didnt hear anything because she had her earphones on. As the day went on, we got really bored. So we started complementing people that walked by us. Nate tried to force me to give my number to a girl, but I didnt. I sat next to him and he was very touchy like putting his hand on my back and smiling a lot. He also started taking my stuff and hiding it. Then we both decided to smoke up after studying so we went into his room and I met a few of his friends. They asked Nate if I was his friend, as if they were insinuating something else. When we got high we went to late night, and he kept on asking if I was ok. We left together, leaving his friends behind at late night. We walked back to his room and he told me that he was going to listen to music and sleep. I grabbed my stuff form his room and he quickly closed the door.
Day 5:
The next morning he FB messages me. He was still high and has a final in two hours. And thats the last time I saw him of my freshman year.
Im just really CONFUSE and I dont know if he was flirting with me during the whole week. I felt like he tried to make some moves but I did not respond to him. SHOULD I MAKE THE FIRST MOVE? (like sending him a FB message. If so like what should I say?)
On a side note, I really like him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and one of my friends said that he was bi, not sure though