Okay so Im not sure if this is the right place to post this; because Ive never used this site before, but I dont feel comfortable telling anyone I personally know this information. My question is this: Is there some kind of medical condition that erases your libido?
Im a 15 year old girl whos never experienced any form of sexual arousal. I mean it. Theres just nothing going on down there. I was always aware of this but I never really started worrying about it until now. Recently, I caught up with some old friends of mine and, while we were catching up, I learned that they all had boyfriends/girlfriends and were sexually active in one way or another. I admitted that Id never done anything like that, but played along when they talked about their fetishes and laughed about awkward sex stories (yeah, all of us are pretty close). I guess that was more or less a wakeup call, and now Im lying awake thinking about this and wondering what the hell is wrong with me. Why have I never been horny? Or ever come close?
At first, I thought I was just gay, but after experimenting with that a bit I realized that girls didnt do anything for me either. When people ask, I just say Im pan because I can be emotionally/romantically attracted to anyone. Theres just no sexual attraction whatsoever. And I dont think Im asexual either, because its not that I dont like the idea of sexI love it and I want to experience that kind of thing with someone Im close to. I crave that kind of intimacy and I feel like Im not good enough for my partner because I cant connect to them on that level. I hate it.
Ive tried every masturbation trick in the book. Vibrators, running water, makeshift dildos, everything. Porn does nothing for me and when I try to get off its just tiring and feels more like a chore than anything. Seriouslyit just kind of tingles. And my hand gets tired. I dont get wet and I dont get any pleasure out of it.
Im not sure what to do at this point. I doubt anyone has had a similar experience to this but Id love any kind of advice you guys have.
Im a 15 year old girl whos never experienced any form of sexual arousal. I mean it. Theres just nothing going on down there. I was always aware of this but I never really started worrying about it until now. Recently, I caught up with some old friends of mine and, while we were catching up, I learned that they all had boyfriends/girlfriends and were sexually active in one way or another. I admitted that Id never done anything like that, but played along when they talked about their fetishes and laughed about awkward sex stories (yeah, all of us are pretty close). I guess that was more or less a wakeup call, and now Im lying awake thinking about this and wondering what the hell is wrong with me. Why have I never been horny? Or ever come close?
At first, I thought I was just gay, but after experimenting with that a bit I realized that girls didnt do anything for me either. When people ask, I just say Im pan because I can be emotionally/romantically attracted to anyone. Theres just no sexual attraction whatsoever. And I dont think Im asexual either, because its not that I dont like the idea of sexI love it and I want to experience that kind of thing with someone Im close to. I crave that kind of intimacy and I feel like Im not good enough for my partner because I cant connect to them on that level. I hate it.
Ive tried every masturbation trick in the book. Vibrators, running water, makeshift dildos, everything. Porn does nothing for me and when I try to get off its just tiring and feels more like a chore than anything. Seriouslyit just kind of tingles. And my hand gets tired. I dont get wet and I dont get any pleasure out of it.
Im not sure what to do at this point. I doubt anyone has had a similar experience to this but Id love any kind of advice you guys have.