Hi there. Sorry if this is in the wrong place, but I put it here because I discuss sex a little bit and thought it might work. If not, I apologize. Anyway, I have liked this guy for awhile and when we were talking, I asked him if he'd date me. He said, "I have feelings for you, but I'm trying to break you out of you're shell. You're really shy. If I'm being open with you and you're not open with me, I'll be in a battle with my mind, 'should I do this, or should I not?' It's a red flag. I have trust issues." He asked me what turns me on (sexually) and I was embarrassed to answer that question. so I said, "you," instead of going into detail about it. But we've had sex, and I am so attracted to him, and I've liked him for years. But the thing is, I don't know if he's using me or sex or if he really does have feelings for me. How would I know? and also, he says he wants me to cum, but idk how.. and I'm not sure I really want to. He's told me that it makes him feel like he's not good enough when I don't. It makes me feel bad, because it's not true. He says he wants me to moan.. but I don't want to do that either. I also don't like making the first moves sexually. What should I do? Does he like me?
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