Hi guys. I've basically come to terms with the fact that I am not heterosexual. I find other guys attractive. IDK if it's 50/50, or 60/40 or 90/10 in either direction- it doesnt matter. What matters is that I am a bisexual. My problem is I just don't know what I'm attracted too, or how much, or in what way. It's actually kind of weird. I've never kissed a girl or a boy, I've never had any relationship/sexual or otherwise either. I'm very social I go to parties all the time and I fairly confident people like me. My problem is, I've never experienced intimacy with anyone, I don't know what it's like to feel "that way" about someone :(. Now I didn't come here to feel sorry for myself. I'm just looking for some advice.
- Basically because I'm not out as -whatever it is I am, and because it's not raining gay/bi guys at any parties I go to. It's next to impossible for me to find a guy that is cool with being with another guy.
So that brings me to my point, finally. Theres this girl I'm friends with, I have been for a year or more now. I find her attractive, very cute, and shes smart too. But I don't know what to do. I talk to her ALL the time, till 6am over skype sometimes.
My friends joke I'm in the friendzone. Maybe I am. I also let too many jokes slip about me being attracted to other guys.
My master plan was to wait until we are together at a party or something (she never goes to parties) and just spontaneously kiss her. But, IDK. IS this a bad idea? She might already think im gay. My brother messaged her on my skype and said I was was gay. She took it seriously and was like Thats okay i support you and stuff -_-. I feel so unmanly. Like I need to hook up with someone and fast. It's actually starting to really piss me off lol.
- Basically because I'm not out as -whatever it is I am, and because it's not raining gay/bi guys at any parties I go to. It's next to impossible for me to find a guy that is cool with being with another guy.
So that brings me to my point, finally. Theres this girl I'm friends with, I have been for a year or more now. I find her attractive, very cute, and shes smart too. But I don't know what to do. I talk to her ALL the time, till 6am over skype sometimes.
My friends joke I'm in the friendzone. Maybe I am. I also let too many jokes slip about me being attracted to other guys.
My master plan was to wait until we are together at a party or something (she never goes to parties) and just spontaneously kiss her. But, IDK. IS this a bad idea? She might already think im gay. My brother messaged her on my skype and said I was was gay. She took it seriously and was like Thats okay i support you and stuff -_-. I feel so unmanly. Like I need to hook up with someone and fast. It's actually starting to really piss me off lol.