Basically after going out with this girl for 4 months it ended, now she said we were going on a break and that week when i was with her in college she still acted like we were couple, kissed and hugged me etc (that was last week) we then had a week off and i thought we were slowly going back into our relationship until on Thursday we were texting and it ended up with her saying going on a break and breaking up are the same thing and we are just friends now (?) I was having a conversation with my brother about this and he thinks she cheated on me and this is to make her feel okay with it, she apparently told someone that she cheated on me but the guy who said this is a compulsive liar, she also started texting her ex (straight away) she decided to go on a "break" with me, i know her ex and her were very close and he is in a relationship, but because of her "bipolar" that's the way she ticks... She still texts me everyday and she is just giving me mix messages, i wanna be in a relationship with her but she hasn't really treated this as a relationship with me, i've only seen her twice outside college and that was at 2 of my friends parties, she uses that she can't see me outside college was because she has social anxiety and bi polar and because of that she doesnt want to go out or come round my house... what should i do? she said to me that her other friends don't want her back and the only friends she really got is in my group of friends, i don't want to be mean and just ignore her, and that will make it hard for me to just be friends as i will see her everyday, she also proper fucked me over in this relationship and she doesn't even realize how much she has mugged me off
(summary from the last post about her on this forum, so you understand the situation)
>haven't seen her one to one outside of college in the 4 months we have been going out
>ditched me for some guy she wanted me to beat up to do couple stuff for his media
>still loves her ex (found out from guy who told her why do you hang around my friends when they are virgins, other words he's a tit)
>conversations about my interests and what i do last about 3 texts and that's that, she doesn't pay any interest in what i'm interested in
>every argument it's my fault and i'm the bad guy
>never listens to my advice and shuns it off
>says this relationship is "okay" when all i do is try my best to adapt to her situations and she flips out when i say my feelings
>says she can do better then me
>Says that i choose to be "nice" (first person to say that i was mean, people have said to me that i'm the nicest guy they have ever met)
(summary from the last post about her on this forum, so you understand the situation)
>haven't seen her one to one outside of college in the 4 months we have been going out
>ditched me for some guy she wanted me to beat up to do couple stuff for his media
>still loves her ex (found out from guy who told her why do you hang around my friends when they are virgins, other words he's a tit)
>conversations about my interests and what i do last about 3 texts and that's that, she doesn't pay any interest in what i'm interested in
>every argument it's my fault and i'm the bad guy
>never listens to my advice and shuns it off
>says this relationship is "okay" when all i do is try my best to adapt to her situations and she flips out when i say my feelings
>says she can do better then me
>Says that i choose to be "nice" (first person to say that i was mean, people have said to me that i'm the nicest guy they have ever met)