my friend mom told her she should not move in with this guy who is older with her because its a mistake. she was just 18 last year when her mom told her that. after we graduated high school she went to the army and came back from ait. less than a month she moved in some guy house. we don't go out anymore. I can't even remember the last time we even went out to a party, let along her going to a party. the guy is 23 years old and already has a grip on life. she just learning and barely can hold on. she spends more money on his bills and on him than she do herself. she works but it seems as if she don't wanna work right now. my friends plans was to go to college. she be around him nearly all time and day. she told me she has to clean and cook and buy groceries. all her fun be around him and his family. she barely knows how to drive so she barely see her family. its him taking her around all the time. she can barely afford clothes for herself now because its all going on his bills and food for the house. we don't go to the movies anymore, nor parties. the last time I seen my friend was on new years. we came over one of our friends house and the guy was there also. that was the first time she has been out in almost a decade. after graduating she didn't explore anything. she just moved in the guy house not taking her mom advice. now she told me yesterday that she has to find herself because she lost. her plans was to go to college but having a boyfriend changes that all the time because she think about things that always hold her back.
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