So, I have another friend (not the one in my previous post that was a cutter) who is deeply depressed about a lot of things. (This is long, sorry) So, it started it out with her texting me saying she wanted to die. I asked her what was wrong, and she said something like, "if I were dead, it would make so many people happy." So of course I asked her how would that make people happy? She started listing a few names that'd be happy, including a friend of ours and our geography teacher. She also mentioned people have told her to kill herself. Then she started saying really suicidal things, and that she's not good at anything and everything she does is bad. Apparently, this was all brought on when her, that before mentioned friend, and another friend were in a group for an english project, but the third friend left to be with another group. the remaining friend told her it was her fault she left (I talked to her later, and she said she wasn't being serious. I also talked to the third friend who said she wanted to be in a group with a girl she hadn't seen in a while). I gave her some advice and reassured her and that seemed to calm her down. She said she was being dramatic. That was about a week ago. Tonight she texted me saying that her mom "just called [her] a slut and told [her] to kill [herself]. Lol" I told her, "that doesn't sound very 'lol'." She told me she didn't understand why they didn't abort her because they never wanted her (which they told her so). Now she has told me I'm a hero-figure for her because of how well I handle negative situations, and that me and two other friends are what keep her going. I just feel very pressured to say the least in what I say to her, because I feel like if I say something out of place to her that she'll do something drastic. She seems that unstable to me. I just kind of want some outside opinions of this situation and any tips people might have for me as her friend. (Thx for reading this, again I'm sorry it's so long)
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